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Hold my hand at the end (at or near the end-of-life)


 

The end-of-life may come suddenly, or a person may be near-death for days or a longer period before finally passing. For some people, the body weakens while the mind stays clear. For others the opposite is true. You may want to know what happens when someone is dying and how to provide comfort and care, what to say, or what to do.

Thinking about the end of life can be emotional and death can be a difficult topic to talk about. There are also many practical things you can do may have to do. This module will provide insight into the following areas: care when nearing the end (practical issues), providing physical comfort, mental and emotional needs, and spiritual needs.

Mental and emotional needs

Treating physical pain and physical discomfort is an important part of end-of-life care. However complete care also includes helping the dying person manage mental and emotional distress. A person who is nearing the end of life and who is alert might understandably feel depressed or anxious. Encourage gentle conversations, so the person has an opportunity to talk about their feelings.

A dying person might also have some specific fears and concerns. He or she may fear the unknown or worry about those left behind. Some people are afraid of being alone at the very end. This feeling can be made worse by the reactions of family, friends, and even the medical team. For example, when family and friends do not know how to help or what to say.

The simple act of physical contact—holding hands, a touch, or a gentle massage—can make a person feel connected to those he or she loves. It can be very soothing

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    Care when nearing the end

    Learn to manage practical tasks and alleviate worries for those nearing end of life, including daily chores and caregiver support, emphasising the importance of self-care for caregivers.
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    Providing Physical Comfort

    Explore how to address the physical and emotional changes during the last days of life, ensuring comfort through symptom management, hydration, and personal care with safe involvement of family and friends.
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    Mental and emotional needs

    Learn the importance of addressing both physical pain and emotional distress in end-of-life care, emphasising open conversations, managing fears, and the power of simple physical contact to provide comfort and connection.
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    Spiritual Needs

    Address spiritual needs at life's end by finding meaning, resolving conflicts, and embracing faith or personal beliefs, with support from family, friends, and spiritual advisors, enhancing peace through connection and expression.
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